Want to see some of the things I ordered on Amazon for this fall?

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/3N8JKEEIG9PJM?ref_=wl_share

This over sized coat 🤤 I love it. So chunky.
There are so many colors to choose from that it’s hard to choose just one!
Loving the brown 💗

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/3N8JKEEIG9PJM?ref_=wl_share <—- my list!

These booties were just 😍😍
Love this skirt for the fall 🔥
Perfect shirt. Trust me.
Love this 💗

To start shopping my list, go here!

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/3N8JKEEIG9PJM?ref_=wl_share

x jenavieve

Learning About Toxic Relationships

Hi everyone. I’m Lima, a Relationship and Lifestyle Blogger and I happen to love tasting the waters, so I have made a lot of mistakes as a Christian.…

Learning About Toxic Relationships

I think everyone should read the blog above.

I know I have had toxic relationships. Although they were never physical, they were certainly toxic and unhealthy for my mind.

My very first love I dated for years, but he would always call me names, like, “bitch”, “whore”, etc.

THESE THINGS ARE NOT OKAY!

And like the author above posted, if you come from a family where your mother and father are not that close, or one has always treated the other a certain way then of course that’s what you will be attracted to. You know they say you marry your father.

“They fuck you up, your mum and dad.
They may not mean to, but they do.
They fill you with the faults they had
And add some extra, just for you.


Philip Larkin, “This Be The Verse”

So, my point behind all of this is toxic relationships are hard to see for some people. It took me three years to finally let go of mine and realize I had lost all of my self-esteem, my friends, and began isolating myself.

All of these things I never wanted to happen to me, they just did; maybe if I can write about it, and someone reads this, they will get out of their relationship quicker than I.

Do not stay in a relationship and keep fighting when they have given up. It will hurt you.

Jenavieve xx

Khaki Lingerie Set

Recently I finished a new set of lingerie that I had been procrastinating about for ages. In the end it was sewn step by step over a few weeknights –…

Khaki Lingerie Set

Can someone please tell me where I can find underwear and bra just like this for a decent price?!

I’ve Been Used! — Cocoa Series

Lately, I’ve felt used, taken advantage of and fooled. The feeling keeps coming and better still, there are revelations on the people involved in this plot. I see the acts, I hear the thoughts from a distance, I reminisce past events and conversations and all I want to do is retrace my steps, press the […]

I’ve Been Used! — Cocoa Series

I feel like a lot of women can relate to this, and should read! ❤️ Amazing blog.

In five days my son will be one year old… so bittersweet

Aiden has started talking, crawling, climbing, and everything else you could possibly imagine.

“It only get harder as they get older. You care more, and obviously children/ toddlers are hard to deal with”

Jenavieve

I remember the 12 hours of labor I had with Aiden! I probably will NEVER forget.

I had to get induced because my son did not want to come out. I am so thankful I chose the 10th of October, well actually the 8th, It just did not happen until the 10th; because his umbilical chord was tied around his neck! During delivery, I was a HOT mess. I was throwing up everywhere. They ran out of vomit bags, so I get up to go to the trashcan to throw up and I pee all over the hospital floor from not being able to control my bladder. The doctor walked in right as I was puking and peeing, and asked, “oh honey, why are you not using a bag?”, I just wanted to yell at her. I had a bad fever. Somehow the hospital gave me a fever and I went into shock. They collapsed one of my veins from the IV.

All in all, I am trying to decide what I want to do for my sons birthday in 5 days. I know he will only be a year old, but it is his first one. Any ideas or suggestions could help, and I would really appreciate it.

Aidens favorite word- dada

Aidens favorite drink- water

Aidens favorite toy- mommy’s hair

I love you – mommy

Jenavieve xx